Well I'm writing a urban fiction romance and I Keep the fire burning by thinking of my present relationship because I am in love at this moment. But If you are a person who no has a significant other Think about someone that you want to get with and think about how you want that person to treat you and how you would treat that person.

While I have no significant other, experiences I've had in the past definitely contribute to the intimate writing I do now a days. Sometimes, you have to think about the people you'd want to be with to keep that fire burning as you write, especially if you haven't got that special someone to help you along.